| Other people have a big impact over the next twelve months, affecting how you feel, what transpires and how events eventually pan out in the end. It’s important to realise this is not anything other than a good thing, but in the meantime there are issues and dilemmas that you’ll need to address, surrounding what you want for yourself, the freedom and independence you now realise you want, the comfort and devotion you have always been seeking, plus the part your closest relationships inevitably play in ultimately approaching this ideal scenario for yourself. During the coming year these are subjects that you’ll need to think about and that will require your attention, so if you choose to ignore them, you’ll stir up more trouble than you would otherwise have encountered. Certain truths you must face about your own patterns of relating won’t always seem comfortable, but their resolution will prove worth the effort in terms of greater certainty, self-acceptance and increased stability as you move forward. Solitude has always been seriously tough for you, but this doesn’t mean any close contact is good enough to devote your considerable energies towards. Those deserving your attention must be worthy of it, not just a messy compromise along the way. |
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| This year you’ll see intimate encounters with others causing you to question much about your dearest affiliations and to work out not only those characteristics you consider most important in a partner, but also what you enjoy and value for your own peace of mind as well.
The theme for the next twelve months and its purpose from the standpoint of where your life is leading, is for you to build and consolidate a firmer foundation from a personal point of view. Primarily this impacts on your home and domestic surroundings, your immediate family and those you live with, your parents, partner and your closest relatives. At the same time you’ll be reviewing your attitude and expectations concerning many things, including those beliefs you primarily hold important and the underlying philosophy by which you regularly run your day. New insights come through formal education, with a return to school or college perhaps, travelling in search of fresh experiences and broadened horizons or some kind of on the job training to improve your skills. But it’s as if every day is a big learning curve, exposing you to radical concepts and philosophies you’d never have thought about beforehand. So life will be very different in the future as a consequence of what you’re discovering now. The more you welcome unusual people into your circle, the more you’ll grow and the better things will all go afterwards. Look out for those from other parts of the world, of diverse age groups and backgrounds especially, because they will help bring novel and enlightening experiences your way. At the same time there will be others who you know already, either professionally or privately but especially closely too, who won’t be pleased by what is happening and who don’t believe your expanding scope works in their best interests at all. You’ll need to explain your situation and how important it is for life always to keep developing, so that hopefully you can move forwards together and further what brought you into one another’s orbit in the first place. |
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| Most probably there will be things about almost every relationship that you’ll need to change, with the best outcome a shared growth process where you can both progress jointly, moving side by side concurrently as well as individually, each fulfilling a unique destiny with something important to do. With those who can’t accept your desire for a wider range, the situation could turn quite nasty, as you see all sorts of subtle and underhand tactics brought into the picture to try and keep things as they are. The worse this gets the more likely that a point of no return will eventually be reached and that with overwhelming bitterness and vested self-interest your association will grind uncomfortably to a close. To avoid this watch out particularly for connections fraught with jealousy, power struggles and possessiveness, especially those where monetary or material matters are used to threaten you and make you stay in line, or where sex is being used in a similarly manipulative way. Gazing further ahead there are great changes in the stars, that will cause your situation presently to seem narrow and sadly limited when you regard it with hindsight. The roots of the rest of your life are steadily founded over the next few months with a revised outlook that takes you onwards from here. The essential basis is an inner emotional stability and your individual situation as a direct reflection of that, so this needs to be firm and more of what you’d want before you can advance. Similarly while you won’t ever feel truly complete while you are alone, it’s honest and fulfilling relationships you need to accompany you, not those making you feel secure but that are only holding you back… |
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